Tough Decision
As pleased as I am that I have no critical decisions (that I
am aware of) to make in the near future, it does create a problem for
completing this assignment. There is an issue that I need to give some serious
thought to, however, so this assignment will force me to address it.
When I made the decision to begin this program, a friend
asked about attending graduation. I replied that I would not be attending a
graduation—I live too far away and it wouldn’t make sense since I didn’t know
anyone. But the thought has crept into
the back of my mind that it would be nice to meet my fellow classmates and
share in the joy of completing this journey together. I will use the five-step
decision –making process to decide what I should do.
Define the Decision
Clearly
The decision is do I stick with my practical nature and
receive my diploma (hopefully) in the mail; or do I break the budget and attend
graduation with my classmates?
Consider All the
Possible Choices
In this case, there are really only two choices: attend
graduation or stay home.
Gather All Relevant Information
and Evaluate the Pros and Cons of Each Possible Choice
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Possible
Choices
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Information
Needed
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Pros
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Cons
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Stay home
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None
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Stress free, save money
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Won’t get to share the experience with my classmates
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Attend graduation
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Will any of my classmates attend?
Distance: RT=1612 mi.
Drive time: 25 hrs. RT
Hotel cost est.: $110x2
Gas: $250 (est.)
Date, time, location of graduation?
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Get to meet my classmates
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Take time from work
Expensive!
Stressful
If I attend graduation, I would want my 4 daughters there also. It is
not likely they could attend and I would be disappointed.
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Select the Choice
That Seems to Best Meet the Needs of the Situation
Based on the information I have at this time, the better choice
seems to be stay home. It is quite possible my classmates will not be attending
either. I will still (I hope) graduate and get a diploma, but I won’t have the
expense and stress.
Implement a Plan of
Action and Then Monitor the Results, Making Necessary Adjustments
My plan at this point is to stay home and be envious of
my classmates. If it turned out that my daughters could (and would) attend with
me, I might reconsider my decision—especially if I knew some of my classmates
would be there too!